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God When?

God When?
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GOD WHEN

Jehovah, do it for your gyal*!

Nobody is toasting* me…

Daddy, when???

I literally cannot count the number of times I’ve said this to myself, in my head or to even my friends.

Being single has its boring and tiring moments, but I’ve been in a relationship before and I can say relationships have their tiring moments too, and if one isn’t careful, this “boringness” can overshadow everything and collapse the relationship. One thing to note is, your single life affects your relationship life. I’ll explain…

Your single life affects your relationship life. Click To Tweet

As a single pringle, how do you live your everyday life? How often do you spend time with God? Where have you seen your idenini*? If you aren’t satisfied with yourself as an individual and if you aren’t seeing yourself the way God sees you, there’s no human being on the surface of the Earth that can change this, and that’s a fact.

If you aren’t satisfied with yourself as an individual and if you aren’t seeing yourself the way God sees you, there’s no human being on the surface of the Earth that can change this, and that’s a fact. Click To Tweet

Someone once said and I quote, “God when, not God anyhow.” Where’s the lie in this? Many people go into relationships because they are “tired” of being single, most times it ends in shambles. The reason is easy, they settled. Girl! Dude! That’s a no no. Never settle. No matter how tired you get, you can always develop yourself in your single period, because this is when you have time for yourself. Write a book, or read books, take up online courses, make more friends, learn a skill. You never know when you would find “the reason” you never settled for anything.

You never know when you would find “the reason” you never settled for anything. Click To Tweet
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 Also, use this time to develop a better personality. Yes, we know your future bae* would love you as who are and accept you for who you are, but nobody likes nonsense, and nobody wants it. If you know there’s something you need to work on, work on it and be a better person. Just like you don’t want to take care of the burdens someone would bring into a relationship, nobody wants that too. Become what you want in another person, if you want someone who is gentle, you have to be gentle. I’m not saying you and your partner are going to have the exact traits and beliefs, but there should be an agreement.

Lastly, especially for those at the back, don’t be indoors 24/7 and be shouting “God When??!” It doesn’t work that way, except you’re waiting for a spirit. Go out once in a while and socialize. This last point is actually for me. While you socialize, set boundaries, those are very important. Tolerance can be very tempting but let people know where to draw the line. And do not forget,

Lastly, especially for those at the back, don’t be indoors 24/7 and be shouting “God When??!” It doesn’t work that way, except you’re waiting for a spirit Click To Tweet

“Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion hath light with darkness?” – 2 Corinthians 6:14 KJV

May the Lord help us in our single period. And the single members of the church say?

Summary:

  1. While single, work on self-development.
  2. Don’t be in a relationship if you don’t understand how to truly love others.
  3. Socialize with people.
Summary:1. While single, work on self-development.2. Don’t be in a relationship if you don’t understand how to truly love others.3. Socialize with people. Click To Tweet

Gyal- lingo for a girl.

Toasting- lingo for wooing

Idenini- lingo for identity

Bae- boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife

ANESI IGEBU

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Anesii is a young woman on fire for Jesus. She uses her writing skills to blog about Jesus till Jesus is proclaimed to the ends of the earth.

(10) Comments

  1. Adetifa Oluwole says:

    this was really nice even though i’m not single (haq haq haq).it was nice read and actually gained something. thanks anesi, keep em coming. 💖

    1. anesii says:

      loool that’s nice, Wole! You’re welcome, and I definitely would ^^

  2. “Idenini” Like really? 😂
    I’d confess, this was a beautiful read. Keep on spreading the Light!
    Valemtime is coming, Lonely, no bae. I’ll keep saying “God when?” because my status has to change this year😅✌

    1. anesii says:

      Thank you, Isaac!
      Haha😂 I believe it willllll. Just be ready 👍🏽

  3. Onosikeh says:

    Idenini 😂😂.

    1. 😂😂😂

  4. This was so awesome.. actually got screenshots to share on my stories .I really appreciate.

    1. anesii says:

      Omg thank you so much, Ann. I really appreciate that ♥️

  5. Abigail says:

    This is so amazing! Thank you Anesi❤️❤️

    1. anesii says:

      Ayyeeee thank you love ❤️

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